So much for a lazy Saturday...

This morning Ms. Nice woke me up with one thing on her mind... I am not complaining but I am NOT a freaking morning person, especially on Saturdays. Over the next couple of hours she made it up to me. We even took some pics ... Here is one that I enjoyed!



Mr. N

Sex in your sleep?

Has anyone experienced waking up to having sex? Last night we had another great session and then fell asleep exhausted. Just worn out... Anyhow sometime early this morning we both wake up to sex. I am not sure who is to THANK, but I have heard of a small percentage of the population that can have sex in their sleep. Kind of like sleep walking but it's sleep fucking.

Wikipedia has to say the following:

Sleep sex or sexsomnia is a form of non-rapid eye movement (NREM) parasomnia (similar to sleepwalking) that causes people to commit sexual acts while they are asleep. The first doctor to coin the term "Sleep sex" is Dr. David Saul Rosenfeld, a neurologist and sleep doctor from Los Angeles, California. The proposed medical diagnosis is NREM Arousal Parasomnia - Sexual Behaviour in Sleep, and is considered to be a distinct variant of sleepwalking/confusional arousals (ICSD 2). The condition was defined by three researchers from the University of Toronto and the University of Ottawa in a paper called "Sexsomnia — A New Parasomnia?" published in the Canadian Journal of Psychiatry in June 2003.

Sufferers are often aware of their behavior for a long time before they seek help, often because they are not aware that it is a medical disorder or for fear that others will judge it as willful behavior rather than a medical disorder. However, the reality of the condition has been confirmed by sleep disorder researchers who have made sound and video recordings of patients with the condition and observed unusual brain wave activity during the episodes similar to that experienced by other parasomniacs. It is a mind/body disconnect that occurs during sleep. In many cases it is a pre-cursor to neuromuscular disease and is treated with muscle relaxants and other medications.

The first research paper that suggested that sexual behavior during sleep may be a new type of parasomnia was published in 1996. Later, several papers were published describing the problem and suggested that problematic forms of sleep sex are medically treatable "conditions" (see external links).

Sexsomnia is not always problematic or extreme for those who experience it or for their partners. There is a great variety in both the frequency and levels to which people are affected by this disorder.

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So WHAT exactly does this mean? I guess it's not a problem until one of us starts getting turned down in their sleep for sex... Perhaps we just need to get to bed earlier. What time do the good people of TMI and BLOGGER go to sleep?

Good night sleep tight but not too tight!

Ms. Nice...

TMI Tuesdsays #89 (our first post!)

1. Does the carpet match the drapes?

Him: Yes
Her: There are some highlights in the drapes but otherwise a perfect match...

2. Have you ever used personal information about someone to blackmail them?

Him: No
Her: Nope

3. What is your favorite thing to lick?

Him: I love to lick and suck on her pussy... her lips, her neck, her nipples, her fingers, her toes... well you get the idea...
Her: I like to start with his ears, especially while he is driving. Moving on to his fingers after they have been in mine or his shorts makes it even better, not just the tips though, try between the fingers or toes and at the base. Can you say HOTTTTT. I love to lick his dick, and he knows it, i think he owes me a lick come to think of it...

4. Have you ever had sex in a place of worship? (i.e., church, temple, mosque, etc.)

Him: No
Her: No, but I have screamed "OH GOD" a lot during sex...

5. If you watch video porn, do you buy it in a store, from a catalog, online, or download it? LINK!!! ;)

Him: I dunno, I don't have any porn. i would say let's rent it. Give us some more ideas.
Her: Shit, let's just make some of our own.

Bonus (as in optional): How often, if ever, do you "fake it?"

Him: I get mine! Just jokes, I have never faked it.
Her: How often currently or previously? That could be a loaded question, but I don't worry about faking it these days. He is always willing and ready to please.

This was fun, can't wait to play again!

Happy TMI!